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An increasing number of studies (WebMD, Psychology Today, NY Times, Men’s Health) are connecting the dots between clutter and disorganization to psychological issues. Many people who have self-identified that having too much clutter or being disorganized makes them feel stressed, anxious, depressed, frustrated.

Undeniable Signs that Clutter is Contributing to Your Emotional Pains

Here are undeniable signs that your cluttered space is contributing to the emotional stress you are experiencing;

  • You no longer find your home space a place of joy, happiness, or comfort.
  • The mere thought of where to locate rarely used items frustrates you.
  • You feel overwhelmed walking into certain rooms, opening up drawers or cupboards.
  • You can’t explain it, but you feel ‘negative’/’unhealthy’ emotions in your space.
  • You avoid inviting people over, or you make excuses when someone asks to visit.

These are just some clues that start to make us realize our physical stuff may impact our mental and emotional state!

Slowly but Surely Stuff Took Over

Many people I’ve talked to mentioned it was not always this way. They moved into their new home with plans to declutter and keep it organized, but gradually, stuff found its way into the home, and before they knew it, it felt like an invasion. 

For some, it was the bedroom, one article of clothing at a time, for others the kid’s toys, the family room, the garage which became the catch-all.

Others took the “let’s put all this stuff into storage”, hoping the out of sight, out of mind would work for them. Storing stuff outside the home can make you feel organized, but at the back of your mind, you know you still have a stuff issue.

Stuff Triggers Stress and More…

When you become overwhelmed with stuff it can trigger a stress response, this can lead to increased anxiety, lower self-worth, even depressive thoughts. 

Before you knew it, your sanctuary became the problem!

You know you need to do something, but the thought of taking on your stuff makes you feel even more overwhelmed and stressed, and that leads to procrastination.

All Your Efforts Seem not to be Working…

You muster your willpower, you proclaim you’re going to do this, you might even make a start, but time after time your attempts seem to falter.

You watch another TV show, buy yet another book… and watch the cycle of desire and defeat repeat itself.

Here’s the reality, you are not alone in this decluttering struggle.

Why Not Change Your Approach?

If you can relate in any way to the above, maybe it’s time to rethink and change your approach.

Start by thinking about the numerous benefits of decluttering and how it will help ease your emotional turmoil.  Ask yourself, what is the connection between you and your stuff? Is there stuff that may be triggering your emotions and why?

For instance, the Journal of Neuroscience published a report in 2011, pointing that decluttering helps get rid of too many stimuli in a space, resulting in improved focus, increased positive mood, and decreased depression.

Decluttering Doesn’t Have to be Hard!

I like watching shows about decluttering, BUT, and this is going to be a big BUT, what works for TV does not work so well in real life. 

The truth is, there is no one-size-fits-all approach when it comes to decluttering. That is why you need the help of an expert to identify a decluttering method tailored specifically for your unique situation. 

If you’ve struggled with decluttering and organizing, you’ve watched the shows, bought the books, maybe it’s time you reach out to someone like me.

I know with the right guidance, accountability, and support you can win your freedom from stuff.

Yoggi Parmar